Was there dating rules, Y’all walked into no commitment relationships only to turn around to pressure on your men and commitment? Really? Well if that’s the situation, you can bend backward in an attempt to make him commit and still no commitment. If you take the tough route to be fully committed and get him to commit by walking away, then be ready for the surprise of your life. Love and commitment from him will definitely happen but not to you. Ultimatums in relationships do more havoc than good.
It’s most natural for girls to want love commitment from relationships. Only wedding bells sound will cure a girl’s mind infected by wedding bug. No commitment from partner means she doesn’t meet the cut or he’s commitment phobia struck. Partners in a committed relationship are more secured in ways than words can possibly offer. So, he should be fully committed to her.
A guest asked what makes a man want to commit because I want a real relationship of love and commitment. The truthful answer is to be yourself and don’t agree with no commitment dating rules that are unacceptable to you. The reasons why he doesn’t want to commit may range from him being scared of commitment (commitment phobia), not ready for marriage commitment to having commitment anxiety. Will he ever commit depends on his situation and the circumstance like career and stage in life?
Why The No Commitment
The thought of marriage commitment may leave a bad taste on the tongue of some guys due to experiences from a previous relationship and or other marriages around. That is not enough deterrent because no two relationships are same and no two people are same. Don’t sweat it or whine about it, shake off the shackles of no commitment phobia.
Your career /addiction may be the priority and marriage commitment looks daunting, brace up and take it head-on. Remove the no commitment barrier in your mind and see how Your private and professional can grow side by side. It gets lonely and tough at the top and you can do with support every now and then.
Why Do Guys Pull Away Before They Commit
Guys pull away from their partners when scared of commitment They spend this space-time chewing on no commitment and its implication or otherwise. It’s either your partner meets the cut or not; so clear as black and white. Take your time to think but if stalling for a committed relationship, you may miss out on life opportunities; many partners move on emotionally.
Its possible one partner is emotionally involved with another admirer at time of being fully committed to the present relationship. Its possible such partner exhausted physical and emotional resources on how to make him commit without pressure and gave up. Then, the other admirer was close by, giving a supporting shoulder and soon it becomes complicated and another relationship anxiety ensues.
It’s important to have your beliefs and values in life before venturing into any relationship. Each partner should have fully committed relationship as needed by the other partner. One more thing to note, no commitment to relationships does neither partner any good because one of the partners can move on at any time.