Giving compliments especially to your date does a whole world of good to your relationship. Do you sense the amazing transformation (magic) on your girlfriend after giving compliments to her? Giving compliments that are genuine boosts the receiver’s morale. Sincere compliments will make any girl smile; the giver gets some too. A smile which is infectious lightens the mood and the ambiance. All guys want to keep girlfriends happy but may lack on this cheap yet powerful art of giving compliments.
How to appreciate a girl starts with giving compliments with words that express commendation, praise and above all admiration. The power from the words and the manner in which those words came out determine how genuine the compliment is. Its better you forgot giving compliments or developed dry mouth due to fear of giving compliments wrongly than non-flattering compliments. Knowing how to compliment is a social necessity whether you are dating or not.
There are more respectful words to compliment a woman. Nice compliments on her good looks, eye compliments, smile compliments or even dress compliments are safe to start with. However, the best way to compliment a woman is by giving compliments that are genuine and courteous. So, you have the power to lighten someone’s mood; go ahead and light the room and the world.
7 Steps Towards Giving Compliments To A Girl – Safety Nets
Be Realistic Be Honest
An ex-girlfriend will treasure compliments received long after the relationship is over. This is because she remembers how transformed and empowered she felt afterward. She might have been looking for such validation and you giving compliments to her sealed her faith in herself. So, be kind and shower your girlfriend with honest and flattering compliments; she will never forget you in a hurry.
Look For Unique Compliments
Giving compliments to her around what attracted you to her is a good start. Everybody is unique in the way the Creator made the person. Look for your girlfriend’s uniqueness; it could come from her voice on the phone to her naturally long eyelashes or legs.
There are some intelligent girls that don’t conform to the traditional belief of beauty with no brain status. Giving compliments to such girls on their smartness or intelligence if you are dating them encourages and supports their goals. This is an example of what girls like it from their guys; career driven girls view such statement as a romantic compliment.
Style And Class
Girls are drawn more easily to fashion; they tend to develop a sense of style that they like and which they hope people find attractive. If you are a suave and smart dresser yourself, you can relate to her on this. Giving compliments on her strong sense of style validates and completes her efforts. Compliments on class often sound snobbish; stay away from that if you cannot manage conversations around it.
Compliment Photos And Makeup
Use cute and romantic compliments for online profile photos. If you notice visible makeover difference, you can start by saying ‘it was courageous to go make-up free with your colleagues but I think you look more stunning with makeup on’. There you have; giving compliments honestly, positively without the morale of the receiver.
Compliment Taste On Rare Items
Giving compliments to her on her choice of restaurant, drinks, dinner options or trip plans gives her indication that you have more in common. If she forgot certain critical trip plan, don’t stress over it but hand her the deserved praise for such initiative. That is being human. Sharing some commonality strengthens the relationship.
Some guys that are not confident and secured often are threatened by a girls success or achievements. You can start to allay her fears on dominance and insecurities by giving compliments to her achievements. It is a safe and kind compliment.
You should have picked few things from you first date about your girlfriend, it is encouraged that you use the steps above and tweak the events and words to suit the personality of your date as well give it an original feel. Good luck bruh, I look forward to reading your experience in our comment section.