Have you ever felt a strong connection to someone you barely know and asked why you’re feeling connected to someone – a stranger? Well, I witnessed deep connection with someone I’d just met, yes it was freaking creepy but I didn’t know that’s an emotional connection. I now know; an emotional bond relationship should have a physical and emotional connection sign that’s obvious for all to admire. People often don’t experience soulmate connection but know that emotional connection is a strong need for a long-term relationship.
Emotional connection depends on who your partner is and not about being in a relationship. Thanks to dating apps, starting a relationship is easier than opening up to physical, spiritual and emotional connection with a woman. For every relationship, a connection is a bedrock without which long-term coexistence dream is squished.
However, if you’re unable to create a healthy relationship bond and emotional connection with a man is lacking, you can increase the emotional connection with someone you love with the following.
14 Key Steps Towards Deep Connection
You probably have had an experience that changed your idea about dating. Get into dating again and work yourself towards having emotional connection with someone. You will never know what its like unless you try it, so I urge you to start dating again for a chance at having emotional connection with her.
Being Vulnerable Is Key To Emotional Connection
Once beaten, twice shy is a wrong saying under emotional connection topic. You must open yourself despite your hurt fears for by it, you’re able to have real love again and develop a connection with someone.
Know Your Values And Who You’re
No one knows you better than you, know your deal breaker before venturing into an emotional relationship. If you your sexual orientation and emotions get the better of you, then, it’s about time you reevaluated them on your priority list.
Achieve One Value Unique To You Both
Compromise is the password, but importantly; don’t lose your identity in a new relationship because that’s what makes you. You must seriously consider your partner because it isn’t about you anymore; your value has to merge with your partner’s to form a new value that is unique to only you and her.
Say It The Way It Is For Real Emotional Connection
Don’t be ‘shy’ in expressing yourself. If you’re feeling deep connection with someone while talking, don’t be ‘shy’ but open up to that person! You have nothing to lose but a lot to gain when you communicate your feelings to that person.
Be Ready To Accept Your Shortfalls
No relationship is perfect without each member accepting the other’s shortfalls. Of course, there are deal breakers but to have an emotional connection, be ready to accept each other the way one is and not want to change any party because that will be working against you.
Sex Isn’t The Answer When Building Emotional Connection
If you’re looking to have an emotional connection, don’t have sex with your partner as soon as you’re done talking. You should desire to be with your partner because you enjoy her company. You need not be a relationship if you’re wanting someone for sex only; of course, soulmate connection doesn’t depend on sex.
Be Realistically Assertive With Your Wants
Most people don’t get it right here due to too much exposure to TV or paper romance. They forget that those soaps and movies are make-believe. Accept your partner’s God-given features; don’t change anything for that can push him/her away. Emotional connection is different from physical (sex) and spiritual connection between man and woman.
Get Your Priority Right First Time
One night stand isn’t the same as a relationship. You should invest time and energy to truly develop a deep connection with someone you want to be with. Prioritize by being available physically and emotionally without being clingy, weird or desperate. If need be, change your lifestyle as well.
Be Open To Possibilities
When you start searching for soulmate, don’t be fixated on the physical look and miss the chance of deep emotional connection with your soulmate. Focus on each step as you go along and don’t be overly concerned about the future – is (s)he my soulmate or not, do we have an emotional connection or not, etc.
Focus On The Good While Working On the Bad
Not everything will be perfect between you and your partner. Even if they are perfect and you dodge the baggage from the past, friends and family from either side might want to throw in spanners – that’s life. Don’t throw in the towel, hang in there because the good times are just around the corner.
Handle Baggage Stuff
Be careful not to allow baggage from previous relationships to ruin the chance of emotional connection and happiness. Take the baggage out and constantly check to see that even small thrash doesn’t clog somewhere and grow into a boulder.
Don’t Lose Your Identity On Emotional Connection Journey
It’s exciting to be in a relationship but the good work that needs to be put in to steady the relationship can cause us to lose sight of who we are. This is where you make an extra effort to bring you along your relationship otherwise self-pity can erode emotional connection once you realize that you don’t have your identity anymore in the relationship.
Take Pleasure In The Ride
Sometimes, the fear of the future can cause one to lose sight of the present beauty (positive) surrounding the relationship. Enjoy being with your partner, never allow a treasure-able moment slip away because those moments are part of the emotional connection that will keep the relationship afloat on a stormy day.
Yes, the storm, the rain, and the sunshine will take their toll but emotional connection makes the relationship stronger in times of turmoil. Remember, emotional connection is not about the relationship status but it’s about the person whom you have the deep connection – possibly your soulmate.