When there’s an obvious change in attitude; know that he doesn’t care about you anymore. he might be pulling away for the wrong reasons. If you’re worried person, you’ll inquire what’s going on with his lack of concern and feeling indifferent to your feelings. It’s easier to deduce he doesn’t care if recently when he acts cold, weird, doesn’t pick or returns your call. When you care deeply, you’d want more indications if he doesn’t care or just that he’s passing through some rough time.
His not caring attitude might be reactions to personal rough patch like work or death in the family. Clearly, it’s not a case of he doesn’t care about you, so, double your effort to take care of him. On the contrary, if you repeatedly tell someone the same thing about how you feel and you don’t see any change; you aren’t clingy, he’s disrespectful. He doesn’t care about you and is not caring about the consequences.
It is what it is but, love can blind your eyes that, you don’t see what’s obvious to others. Despite your confused state; be objective, right now you’re unsure of whether to cut your losses or work on the relationship.
17 Signs That He Doesn’t Care About You Anymore
You Turn From His Priority To An Option
He doesn’t care about you anymore when your status changes from priority to option. When he makes a plan without you in the picture, he’s not caring anymore when he singly takes a decision that affects both of you.
He Doesn’t Care About You If Only Sex Happens
Don’t get me wrong; trust me when I say there’s a difference between booty call and sex with girlfriend. At the initial stage of his withdrawal, sex happens with no emotional or psychological connection. He shows no care and deeper connection at intimate moments; this sex means he doesn’t care about you.
No Further Introduction And Commitment
If he didn’t introduce you to his friends and family then; know that that introduction and commitment will never happen because he doesn’t care about you anymore. What others think of you in his inner circle is a symbol of his value for you and the relationship.
When you realize that the total compromise in the relationship is borne by you; he doesn’t care about you. He’s almost similar to a narcissist here; benefiting from the relationship without giving anything. I mean; people make a sacrifice for those they love, he doesn’t care about you hence he bears no cost.
You Always Make The 1st Move
You are struggling to stay connected with him. Sign of mutual affection is reciprocity; so, an indication that he doesn’t care about you is when you first call. If you initiate all the plans to hang out or talk with him, then he doesn’t care about you.
He Doesn’t Care About You When He Needs Prompting
Recall how it was initially with him taking charge of almost everything? Compare it to see if your man not caring is intentional or otherwise.
He Doesn’t Care About Your Happiness
Making your girlfriend happy is vital in a relationship because happy girlfriend means happy relationship. If he doesn’t delight you in any way, girlfriend, am sorry to spell it out – he doesn’t care about your happiness or comfort.
No Catch Up Time And Is Inattentiveness While Talking
Since he doesn’t care about you, he will avoid any chatting. He will intentionally make you know that he’s not paying attention by breaking into your talking – that’s rude. This is because he anticipates that you’ll ask him the question do you don t care about me? He doesn’t want to say the words to you.
Shows No Interest In You Or Your Activity
Someone paying attention to you means he cares about you and wants to know you better. When he doesn’t ask or isn’t interested in knowing how you are or your day and activity are. Then, he’s doesn’t care about you like that. It’s as simple as that.
Shows No concern When You Flirt / Stick Up With Other Men
Do you want to prove further that he doesn’t care about you? If you flirt or hang out with men in a non-business environment and he’s not bothered, perhaps seems happy about it. What other further proof do you need to know that he’s not caring anymore?
No Special Treatment; Casual Like Others
How people in relationship treat each other is a reflection of their level of connection. If he treats you casually; it means that’s the way he values you, flag it off quickly.
No More Respect And Security
Girls look for guys that defend and respect them. If he doesn’t shield you against other male’s unwanted advances or harsh criticism from friends and family. It means you have a non-caring friend.
No More Discussion About The Future
If a guy doesn’t talk about the future or perhaps he talks without you in the picture. It means you are a rebound. You are on your own. In strong relationship, caring means sharing the present and the future together
No More Sharing Of Bills/Chores
If he’s financially and physically endowed but doesn’t pay or square the bill, he isn’t investing in the relationship which translates he doesn’t care about you. Probably, you suggested dinner and he doesn’t share in paying to give you a subtle message.
Avoids Couple’s Time
If a guy avoids spending time with you; only come home to sleep off, it’s a red flag. When he doesn’t want to discuss issues after the relationship, he doesn’t want to answer the question and doesn’t care about you and the relationship.
Loses Sexual Interest
As if sex with no care and tenderness isn’t enough disrespecting hints that he doesn’t care about you. Sex stops eventually because there’s lack of passion and sexual interest. Girlfriend, what’re you waiting for; avoiding you physically, emotionally and psychological speaks volume. He doesn’t care about you.
Nonchalantly Seeks / Engages Other Girls
As a single and searching guy, you take great care in dressing up because you always want to score good 1st impression with females on scheduled or accidental meeting. So, when a guy suddenly takes extra care dressing up or is constantly engaged on his phone; you’re not a clingy girl but checking things out, it’s more than a red flag. If you caught him cheating on you, he doesn’t care about you and doesn’t respect your relationship.
It’s vital that you made an informed and objective decision about your life. Do you think it’s time you learned how to stop caring so much in a relationship or otherwise? Yes, it’s scary and depressing to think going solo (single) again after, investing time, energy and feeling this is it. You deserve better than you are getting and only you can change you; you can’t change the other person.